So basically the worse player you are, the harder it is? Well hello there Captain. Obvious. All that you've described really doesn't consitute anything remotely hard to do. I hope Wildstar has a bit more than buff & resource watching to make it a challenge. I'm sure your friend was a decent player and all that, but a decent player does not a hard game make . A healers job is only as hard as the raid makes it, frankly, unless the combat specifically gives you something to do. Its not hard, it's never been hard in any MMO I've ever played. Is it amazingly easy? Nope. Mechanics make a fight hard, not your role. Playing the bar-filling game is pretty damned straight forward, especially if you have fewer types of abilities at your disposal. Anyway, if Tera's combat is all that and was so challenging, why are you waiting for Wildstar? I was perfectly ok to say leave it at that whilst letting you know my opinion on a game (note: not player). Jeeze.