That is why you make friends with the awesome people and make sure to play with them often Don't feed the trolls. Encourage the other positive people around the community. Try to be helpful if you are a SME (subject matter expert) or be thoughtful/insightful. On the topic at hand? Make a guild/organization that fits what you enjoy doing. If you don't enjoy what you are doing you are doing something wrong. Build the social aspects of what is important to you. Work with people who are timely, good at communicating, and willing to work as hard as you do towards achievable goals. Be willing to listen to criticism, feedback, and recognize which is which. Some really solid bro advice? Don't spam invite. Make your app process be multi-layered so that you bring in quality people. Make a project list with those you work with in your guild and manage daily, weekly, and monthly tasks as needed. Find some awesome people to do that social media/website building/teamspeak managing, ect ect. People with various skills help keep things running smoothly. Mizpah had some really great points also but I didn't want to quote that whole monster! Good luck I hope a few random tips/suggestions/musings help!